[Right. Comments section. It's hard to reconcile even though they'd just talked about it because he would never use an actual comments section for anything at home, and here it's basically the main form of communication. Awful.
But okay. If he can keep that in mind it does help, and Stephen's right on his other points, so he's going to do his best. It might be a little more difficult for him than some other people because of various factors, but he's done much harder things than this.
So refocusing on the new topic--]
That's good. Kyna and I got lucky; aside from some overgrowth through the windows there wasn't much damage.
[And as for Red Wings, he appreciates the sentiment, but he thinks he'll be avoiding the place awhile as things settle down. No need to cause more trouble, but also no need to mention that.]
Now that everyone's returned, there's fortunately been less need to bring people to Red Wings for help, though the hospital is still really understaffed; you might've seen the post about that. I don't think they have anyone with much knowledge in your area of expertise, and therefore if you need something to do they might benefit from consulting with you--even from afar--if a patient with those needs comes in.
[Not to give Stephen work or anything, but a distraction that he could participate in without having to be involved in person might help. Hopefully, anyway.]
[ The topic shift is subtle enough that it's notable, but also that it doesn't bear mentioning or reading into too much. The conclusion is easy enough to reach, no need to chase after it. Besides, Lance is offering a focal point - not just in terms of the conversation, but in terms of grounding him in the distraction of the now.
It's a kindness. He won't spit at it. ]
Do you happen to know who took point in the end? Given the context of our conversation, I'm sure you won't be surprised to learn I avoided paying detailed attention to that particular discussion at the time.
If you don't know, don't go looking. I'm going to have to endure the network again eventually. It may as well be to do my own legwork.
[ And he means that exactly as he says it. Good to have an opportunity to talk, plainly and without either one of them reaching too blatantly for the high ground to the detriment of seeing something close to eye to eye. To get to know one another a little better, even if it was through the medium of a topic it's a wonder they hadn't yet exhausted.
Good also to be able to have a conversation, after everything. There are a good many more of them he'll need to have, but this one has been far from terrible. ]
[This is definitely not he he expected this conversation to end up, especially with how it started, but he'll take it. It's probably the best way it could've gone, and considering how bad everything has been for all of them lately, that's nothing short of miraculous.]
Yeah, you too. Let me know if there's anything you need.
[With dealing with all this, especially since he's not sure exactly how limited Stephen's support network is going to be at the moment.]
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Date: 2021-01-25 10:52 pm (UTC)But okay. If he can keep that in mind it does help, and Stephen's right on his other points, so he's going to do his best. It might be a little more difficult for him than some other people because of various factors, but he's done much harder things than this.
So refocusing on the new topic--]
That's good. Kyna and I got lucky; aside from some overgrowth through the windows there wasn't much damage.
[And as for Red Wings, he appreciates the sentiment, but he thinks he'll be avoiding the place awhile as things settle down. No need to cause more trouble, but also no need to mention that.]
Now that everyone's returned, there's fortunately been less need to bring people to Red Wings for help, though the hospital is still really understaffed; you might've seen the post about that. I don't think they have anyone with much knowledge in your area of expertise, and therefore if you need something to do they might benefit from consulting with you--even from afar--if a patient with those needs comes in.
[Not to give Stephen work or anything, but a distraction that he could participate in without having to be involved in person might help. Hopefully, anyway.]
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Date: 2021-01-26 10:50 pm (UTC)[ The topic shift is subtle enough that it's notable, but also that it doesn't bear mentioning or reading into too much. The conclusion is easy enough to reach, no need to chase after it. Besides, Lance is offering a focal point - not just in terms of the conversation, but in terms of grounding him in the distraction of the now.
It's a kindness. He won't spit at it. ]
Do you happen to know who took point in the end? Given the context of our conversation, I'm sure you won't be surprised to learn I avoided paying detailed attention to that particular discussion at the time.
If you don't know, don't go looking. I'm going to have to endure the network again eventually. It may as well be to do my own legwork.
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Date: 2021-01-26 11:36 pm (UTC)Technically I believe Nicky was organizing, but Gene's also there.
[And so Lance had coordinated with him since he knows him better, which he imagines might be the same case for Stephen.]
As far as doctors go I think Julian was also involved, so he could be another potential person to talk to.
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Date: 2021-01-28 03:25 pm (UTC)Thanks, Lance. It was good to speak with you.
[ And he means that exactly as he says it. Good to have an opportunity to talk, plainly and without either one of them reaching too blatantly for the high ground to the detriment of seeing something close to eye to eye. To get to know one another a little better, even if it was through the medium of a topic it's a wonder they hadn't yet exhausted.
Good also to be able to have a conversation, after everything. There are a good many more of them he'll need to have, but this one has been far from terrible. ]
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Date: 2021-01-30 03:04 am (UTC)Yeah, you too. Let me know if there's anything you need.
[With dealing with all this, especially since he's not sure exactly how limited Stephen's support network is going to be at the moment.]