[It seems like there might be multiple issues here, coming together all at once; it's not just the issue of impending death, both for her and someone she cares about, but there's that mention of the person who killed her parents. Maybe she's already dealt with that, but maybe not and maybe it just get wrapped up in all the rest of the situation.
It's not the matter at hand, though, and he won't ask specifically about it just yet. One thing at a time, especially with as massive a thing to have to deal with as dying is.]
What is it that stays with you, about the experience? What is it that you feel when you think about it?
[In his experience, from talking to other people who have been through something like this, it's different for everyone what it is that they have to struggle with. Often it's more than one issue, but there will still usually be one thing that stands out the most and that tends to be a good place to start trying to sort it all out.]
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It's not the matter at hand, though, and he won't ask specifically about it just yet. One thing at a time, especially with as massive a thing to have to deal with as dying is.]
What is it that stays with you, about the experience? What is it that you feel when you think about it?
[In his experience, from talking to other people who have been through something like this, it's different for everyone what it is that they have to struggle with. Often it's more than one issue, but there will still usually be one thing that stands out the most and that tends to be a good place to start trying to sort it all out.]