[Lance shifts on his feet, still a bit agitated about this entire thing, but he's beginning to calm down a bit as well; he listens to what Ephemera says, and it's encouraging.]
You're right, about all of that.
[And it's nice that he's so self-aware of not only his own feelings but the overall situation, because it means they can skip right to the important and difficult part of how to handle things. And Lance is quiet a moment, considering options and what to say next, before finally speaking again.]
Letting go of your anger is easier said than done, but the most important thing to remember is that it's about what's best for you. Choosing not to be angry, or to focus your energy and attention on him, doesn't mean what he did is okay or that you forgive him; it means you're not allowing him or his actions to have any further control over your life.
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You're right, about all of that.
[And it's nice that he's so self-aware of not only his own feelings but the overall situation, because it means they can skip right to the important and difficult part of how to handle things. And Lance is quiet a moment, considering options and what to say next, before finally speaking again.]
Letting go of your anger is easier said than done, but the most important thing to remember is that it's about what's best for you. Choosing not to be angry, or to focus your energy and attention on him, doesn't mean what he did is okay or that you forgive him; it means you're not allowing him or his actions to have any further control over your life.